Establishing a social reality ?

To comprehend one's social reality is almost impossible due to one's everyday experiences perplexing their social conscious and subconscious. These various social engagements that occur throughout a second,minute, hour or within a day(s), week(s), month(s) or year(s) fall upon a scale that exist at both primary, secondary levels. These social and intimate acts that change our everyday perception of our social reality can exist in various forms. There is a common aspect that is not controllable for a individual as a child and into early adulthood one cannot choose the state or country they grow up in, they cannot control the governmental, social laws that exist within this place. The various realities that one exist within can change any infinite amount of social interactions experiences that not as general in terms of one's parents, siblings, other family member. Along with this concept there is a element of control due to the fact that one may choose who or who not to interact with in terms of their family members or friends as well as the people one may engage with on a regular or non-regular basis. To clarify the family example while in early ages of development a child can not choose the way they interact with family members but this may change later on in life. This is crucial to clarify, because most individuals base their social morality on direct experiences with family at a early age that may be more positive then negative or negative then positive. One other example this could include is the time frame one exist within, one can not will him/herself to exist in 200 B.C or 1700 A.D, like state before the location of one's origin can not be changed unless other factors make that change occur or one chooses to leave that location later in life, However just because location changes does not mean the experience of life has changed and the individual is still a by product of his/her own previous social reality. The various locations one may travel too or have contacts in from various social networking tools or the job they choose or don't choose can have a powerful effect as well. One must come to turns with what they themselves allowed their own self to act like in all of these circumstances, what they may have or may have not allowed, what they said or did not say, what they wanted to do and what they actually did etc. This awareness builds strength in one's social reality. The social realities that exist are different for every individual due to everyone's various living circumstances that may be in one's control or not. Time, place and location need to be considered, in order to properly understand that the way a certain part of country, state, county, city, town or community function and exist over all is varied due to the social norms that exist within those places and times but also consider that even within this social landscape that every household within these various social facilities exist a different reality for every person in that space has a different reality. The life span of every individual is a continuous and unstable development/understanding period . When we take all these aspects into account we can enter one's social nature towards intimacy, reality and various other factors apart of life. These factors also change one's sexual development, in terms of the way the one's behavior is towards possible partners or existing partners. As well as the way they approach, engage, interact and express themselves to these individuals they have a possible connections with.

Along with the reality of one's uncontrollable or controllable circumstances their is a existence for those existing in the modern era, which is varied even more due to the fragmented existence of the perplexing social reality, that exist today.